Looking at my life now I realize that I already feel like I am there in many ways. Many of the people I love or have loved have passed away. To the point where if there is a heaven and all those people are there I think it may be better than here.
And so I look at why might I want to stay here on this physical plane. There are many things that are worth doing and many things that are fun and frivolous. Is there really a right reason? I don't think so. One thing I love to do is to coach people and be with my family.
Since as long as I can remember, people have asked me for advise. I don't know all the answers but for a while there I thought I did. I have come to realize that there are some simple truths to life. And that if you follow them you will be content if not blissfully happy.
#1. Suffering is caused from not choosing what is already happening.
#2. Speaking a future into existence is possible. The right actions do need to follow.
#3. If you are doing something contrary to your heart, stop the action and choose again.
#4. Sometimes you can do it just because you said you would. And for no other reason.
#5. Integrity works.
One of my fabulous coaches asked me a great question once. It was:
Are you willing to give up what you want, to get what you can really have?
What is it that I really want?
To have a life full of freedom and fun.
The reason why it was a cool question was that in the WANTING of it, I am declaring that I DO NOT already HAVE it.
Now you can try this exercise out for yourself. See if you can give up wanting it. That thing you want. And see what else shows up. Stop putting it on your goal sheet. Stop striving for it. Stop asking for it.
If you have trouble with this I am always available for coaching. Of course you also have to ask yourself, am I ready, willing and able to take the coaching? Some mind bending might occur. You ready for that?
Tomorrow and the next day are coming. And they will pass. You get to choose whether you want them to be the same as they always have been or if you would like them to be any different.